Thursday, October 27, 2011

I figured out how I can post pictures from my phone! I know I know, im a tiny bit slow. But, im not sure where they will be on the post! Here are some pictures from our recent events!
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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Long past due update :)

So... in August I started my new job, which can I say I love! I love the patients and the people I work with are SO fun! When were not working were having fun ;)

Now I am going to just going to type what comes to my mind first so as you read remember it may not be in order! (Im having a case of pregnancy brain) hehe

Speaking of pregnancy I have had a few appointments that I have not blogged about. First off, its a GIRL!!! Yes the Cameron family is going to have a girl in the family! I am about 21 weeks and have a little itty bitty belly. I have been feeling her kick lots and have gained 5 lbs so far. Can I just say Rhyder is going to be such a great big brother! He kisses my belly and says baby. Haha its adorable! She is growing and sounds healthy. We will have an ultrasound the begining of November.

Rhyder is getting so big! At the begining of October we had to take him to the cardiologist for his heart murmur. He had an eco cardiogram done and something else that I can't remember! He was so good and such a bigger boy. They said that it sounds pretty loud but they are thinking that it is loud beacuse it's closing on it's own! Crossing our fingers!!! They are going to have us go back when he is about 3. He is saying so many things that blow me away like, "where are you?" I was looking for his binki the other night and I kept saying "binki where are you?" and all of a sudden he said it. We take him in for his 15 month check up at the end of this month.

A few weeks ago Ben went elk hunting and shot us an elk! That means we have meat for a year until next elk hunting season. This past weekend we went on my rifle deer hunt and I shot a 2 by 3. We were pretty excited for mt first deer!

Ben turned 24 on the 21st which was fun, we went deer hunting for his birthday! Good thing we gor ome! Okay, I know it's more entertaining to read something with pictures but there are a few reasons why I dont do pictures often on my blog. 1: I usually take pictures with my phone and I don't know how to post them on my blog from my phone. 2: There are very little pictures on my laptop (since my old one crashed) 3: There all on facebook and I highly doubt people really follow my blog :D haha

I hope you have enjoyed this update and I will try to get better at updating about our life!
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Thursday, August 18, 2011

Stress :/

Alright... I am giong to have a venting session... :)

Ben has been working nights for quite awhile now and can I just say I absolutely HATE it! I hate being home alone at night and feel like I don't ever get to see him. This is how it goes. Wednesday Ben goes in at midnight so I come home from work at about 6pm and see him until I go to bed (he lays in bed until I fall asleep) then Thursday he sleeps until about 4:30 then he goes to work at 5:15, by the time I get off and get Rhyder Ben is already one to work. Same thing happens on Fridays, Saturdays Rhyder and I wake him up about 3 and we hangout with him until about 5:15 and he is off to work. Sundays he sleeps until about noon and then he hangs out with Rhyder and I. Ben has Sunday, Monday and Tuesday nights off!!! Monday's and Tuesday's I work until about 6 then come home and do dinner then most the time lay down since I have not been feeling good. Same thing again on Wednesday! I can't wait until he is done working nights! Hopefully he will be done in a few weeks.

1st Dr's Visit

On Tuesday I had a doctor's apptointment. Usually Ben would have been at work but since he has been working another shift he was able to go! Rhyder also tagged along with us to hear the baby's heart beat. When we got there they were so excited I was back and brought the family :D They could not get over how big Rhyder has gotten! Crazy enough I weigh the same as when I went in for my first appt with Rhyder. (LESS on my scale) We got to hear the heart beat which was in the 170's healthy and strong. My doctor also said that my uterus was the size of a 14 week baby, if you go by the original (mensteral cycle) I would be 10 weeks 3 days. She said she didnt know if it just didn't go all the way done from Rhyder since he was so big. Unless I go get an ultrasound we are just going with 10 weeks 3 days until I do get an ultrasound! It was a good appt and I can't wait until the next time we get to go in :D

Thursday, August 11, 2011

March 2012 Baby!!

Yes, that's right... We are EXPECTING again!!!

It all started when we went to the country fest in South Jordan the end of June. We met some friends at the country fest and were havin such a great time until the girls decided to go on roller coaster which I absolutely LOVE!!!! I could go on them ALL day... well, not this time. I felt so sick afterwards. When we left Ben stopped at Wendys to get some dinner. I was so sick I couldn't even smell food. The second we walked in our front door me and all the things I was carrying went straight to the bathroom and puked.

At that moment I knew something was not right! I had never in my life got sick from a rollercoaster! Over July 4th we went to a friends cabin for a nice little vacation with friends and family. Ususally the smell of liquor doesnt make me sick but this weekend was totally different! I could smell it from so far away and would get SO nauseated! I kept telling my mom I must be pregnant or something cuz this is not like me. When we came home I still was not feeling right, I kept telling my mom that I didnt feel good or like myself! Her response was always "why don't you go take a test?"

Let me give you a little insight of how I feel about pregenancy tests! HA HA When I thought I was pregnant with Rhyder I took 4 take home test and they ALL came back - NEGATIVE! But, sure enough I was pregnant, with that being said I don't trust these things!

Me being me I just kept telling my mom that there was NO point in taking one since it would just say negative anyways! I never really did tell Ben how I felt cuz his response is ususally you have stomach problems and don't feel good so what is new... lol I finally broke down and decided that since I was going to the store anyways I would just buy one and take it, then I could also tell my mom I did and nothing! So I bought a box of 3 incase I needed them all. :)

Rhyder and I left the store and went home. I sat there and just starred at the tests to get up the courage. I finally went in and took the test, I immediatley walked out of the bathroom and picked Rhyder up. He was my finding out buddy! We went back in and looked at what I saw as 2 pink lines. I was in such shock that I couldn't smile, couldn't cry and couldn't talk! I had stuck in my head that even if I was it was not going to come back positive and there I was flabber gasted by the 2 pink lines.

I have always wanted to tell Ben in a cute way so I tried my hardest to not call or text him until he got home which was an hour later. I grabbed a white onsie out of Rhyder's drawer and wrote "I am going to be a BIG brother" on it so when Ben got home he would read it. I was still in shock and excited at this point so when he got home I picked Rhyder up and went to the front door. When Ben looked at him and read the shirt he looked at me with a serious face and said "how do you know?" (Ben had NO idea I thought I was or was taking a test)I started laughing and said I took a test. It's in the bathroom. His response was I need to go for a run haha Rhyder and I of course went with him but just walked. It took us both a few days to get over the shock (I even took another test the next morning). We did get over the shock and we are very excited. I can't wait to find out what we are having and tell everyone! I hope for a girl but Ben thinks it's a boy! We will see and keep you posted! My 1st appt is August 16th!

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Rhyder's 1st year!!!

OMG... I can't believe that Rhyder is 1, this year has gone by SO fast and he has grown a lot! I was talking to my mom today about what he has done and how advanced he is for his age and thought it would be fun to share with you! Here are a few things that he has done along the way!

3 weeks he started holding his own head up
3 months he was eating baby food
4 months he started sitting up on his own
6 months he started pulling himself up to things and eating regular food
7 months he was crawling ALL over
8 months he decided to start walking EVERYWHERE, he got RSV and had to get tubes.
9 months is when he thought it would be a good time to pop out 2 teeth while mom and dad were on vacation. He also decided it was time to start crawling UP the stairs.
10 months he discovered how to run and then began going DOWN the stairs (yes there is still a gate up)

He has a HUGE vocabulary... Some of his favorite words to say are: deer, hat, dog, elk, up, down, hi, bye, bite, that, more, mama, dada, baba, ball, and nana (banana)

He LOVES to be outside, waving, dogs, riding on the 4 wheeler, and hats. He will take the phone and hold it up to his ear and says hi then looks at us and laughs. It has been a fun and exhausting year in our house hold. There was a point where he had an ear infection for about 3 months straight and got RSV. He is now sleeping pretty much through the night and is usually SO happy! He is starting to understand what we tell him to do, for example he will take the remote or our phones and walk away with them and then come back, we will tell him to go get the remote (or whatever he took) and he will go get it and then bring it back to us. He is noticing things more, we will ask where the trees are and he will point to them. He will point at a deer and say deer. Rhyder has somewhere learned how to smack his lips together and that means he wants food hahahaha! He has started to get shy/stranger danger and cry when one of us leaves which breaks my heart!

I will say when I was pregnant I would always say I hope he is smart and is a happy baby and I will say we are extremely blessed that he is just that. With him being our first baby we didn't really know how advanced he was. People would tell us but we didn't think anything of it until we were at the hospital for him to get his tubes there was another little boy that was 14 months and his mom was shocked Rhyder could walk (8 months) and was telling us how her little boy couldn't crawl and hadn't even started trying to and that is when I realized that No I didn't want my little baby to grow up but that I was PROUD at how smart and good he is!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Ahh... Relieved

So... I got a new job and I will start the 1st of August! I have dreading telling my current boss since I am not good at things like that! But I decided that I was going to give a months notice since I will most likely have to train whoever takes my place. When I came into work today I told myself today needed to be the day that I tell him! So when he went to leave I told him I needed to talk to him, so I followed him outside and told him that July 29th would be my last day! I am so relieved, it feels so good to get it off my chest!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Anniversary Weekend!

June 13Th was our 2 year anniversary! Since it was a Monday I decided I wanted to do something have a weekend away to just relax and enjoy each other. My mom got us a condo in Eden, UT for our anniversary so when we got off work Friday we threw everything in the car and were off! I had my mom get Rhyder from the baby sitters so we could just go! On the way up there we just talked listened to music and enjoyed the scenery... When we got up there we checked in and then went to dinner at a nice restaurant (which we didn't know) we walked in with our jeans and tee's on :D They had a live band playing which was fun to listen to Ben make fun of them (they weren't very good) ha ha after dinner we decided to go back to the condo and hangout so we just went back watched t.v. and went to bed early! The next morning we woke up and just hung out around the condo and make pizza then we got ready and headed to pine view reservoir to go fishing. We had a blast! We caught some fish and decided to head back when we got to the condo I was dying to go sit in the pool and hot tub so we headed there. It was so crowded we sat there for a bit and started to get hungry so we went back and got ready for dinner. On the way to dinner we decided to go to Ogden's liquor store which I must say was an adventure ha ha then off to dinner we went! I must say hands down that Huntsville's BBQ Company has some of the BEST BBQ I have EVER had! It was so good, nice atmosphere and was just a fun place! After dinner we were driving back to the condo and decided we should go night fishing which was fun! I loved spending the weekend away but yet not to far and just having hubby and me time! It was relaxing and nice, just what we needed! I will post pictures another day!

Monday, May 16, 2011

Our Family!

Here is a tiny update about what is going on with our family lately. Rhyder has been doing SO much better since he got his tubes in. He has started sleeping much better at night (more sleep for mom) :D Friday May 6th Ben and I went up to the family property in fruitland and stayed the night. Ben found some nice sheds. We came home Saturday and went to our friends Jason and Jessica wedding. Which was BEAUTIFUL!!!! Then Sunday was mother's day, we had Josh, Kim and Hunter over for breakfast with Janet (Ben's mom) then we went to the bowling alley to see Suzie (my step mom) then we went to my mom's house for dinner. It was such a nice relaxing day! This past weekend Ben and I decided it would be fun to take the baby up to fruitland and go on a 4 wheeler ride. It was supposed to be nice on Saturday so we woke up at 6 a.m. and headed up there. It was cold and windy but we did have so much fun. Then Saturday we got home and I went to Maggie McGee to celebrate my friend Aubrey's birthday. Ben had to work Sunday so I spent some time with my mom and sister. Ben came to my mom's after work and we had a BBQ... After dinner we decided that rhyder was in major need of a hair cut so Ben and Dave (my step dad) got out the clipper and went to town!!!! Rhyder looks so cute with his new do!!

Friday, April 22, 2011

*LOVE*

Today I heard the song that I danced to with my best friend the day I married him! I thought I would share a little info... Over 3 years ago I met this amazing man, 2 years and 8 months ago he asked me to spend the rest of my life with him! 1 year and 9 months ago on June 13, 2009 we said I DO! Ben always told me from the beginning that he knew what song we would dance to. Ben is my best friend and I am so glad that I have him in my life! Through all the ups and downs he is still by my side! Here are the lyrics!!

I've seen the storm clouds in your past
But rest assured 'cause you are safe
at home at last
I rescued you, you rescued me
And we're right where we should be
when we're together

I know the questions in your mind
But go ahead and ask me one more time
You'll find the answer's still the same
It won't change from day to day
for worse or better

Will I promise to be your best friend
And am I here until the end
Can I be sure I have been waiting for you
And did I say my love is true
Baby I will, I am, I can, I have, I do

I know the time will disappear
But this love we're building on will always be here
No way that this is sinking sand
On this solid rock we'll stand forever

Will I promise to be your best friend
And am I here until the end
Can I be sure I have been waiting for you
And did I say my love is true
Baby I will, I am, I can, I have, I do

Baby I will, I am, I can, I have
Oh, I will, I am, I can, I have
Baby I will, I am, I can, I have, I do


I LOVE YOU BEN!!!!!

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

ENT

I took Rhyder to the ENT (ear, nose, and throat) doctor to check his ears. They said that he has a lot of fluid in his ears. Then the doctor told us that they like to give it 3 months to see if the fluid would go away. My mom of course came with since Ben couldn't and I was stressing! (Like always) and she brought up a very good question... She asked the doctor if the fluid could have been from his first ear infection in January... The doctor said it could be but there is no way to tell. He then told us if we were to take him to Vegas and make him put money on whether Rhyder would need tubes or not he said that he is going to say eventually he will. So with that being said the decision needed to be made between doing tubes now or doing them later down the road and wait to see if the fluid went away. We left and I called Ben to talk about what we should do! As parents it is ruff to see your little baby go through pain. We have already been seeing him go through pain for a little over a month now. He doesn't sleep, he pulls his ears, and HATES laying down. With all that being said we are going to just do it and get it over with! Which I hope helps! Being a stress and paranoid freak I am extremely nervous even though I know so many people who have had it done, but the thought of my 8 month old baby getting put under and having surgery is just something I never thought we'd have to do and here it is going to happen! I know he will be fine and it will turn out okay but ya know!

Rhyder will be getting tubes in his ears April 25th, 2011

Monday, April 4, 2011

MaSsIvE UpDaTe :D

It has been awhile since I have blogged and so much has happened!

Around the beginning of March Rhyder started to get a cough, runny nose and was grabbing at his ears. We didn't think anything of it except it was another cold. Well he didn't seem to get any better only worse, one night he woke up every half an hour therefore I didn't go to sleep until 6:30am when Ben took him into the other room and that is when we decided that we needed to go to the doctor. On 03.14.11 Ben and I took him to the doctor where they told us he had an ear infection and RSV, they put him on medicine for his ear infection and told us to watch him for worse sympotms of RSV and to come back the following Saturday. The following day I stayed home from work and was very concerned when it came 5:30pm and Rhyder had only went to the bathroom once ALL day! So I made an appointment with an insta care since his doctor's was about to close. We had him checked out, they said he looked good and to just keep watching him (I am a very paranoid person) the following Saturday 03.19.11 we went back to his original doctor and they said his ears look better but to keep him on his medicine and come back the following Saturday. On 03.22.11 I finally went to the doctor and was told I have the start of ammonia and got put on medication. The following Saturday 03.26.11 we went back to Rhyder pediatrition and she said his ears were worse so they were putting him on another antibiotic and giving him numbing drops, his cough was getting better and lungs sounded great and to come back the following Saturday! We made and appointment to go back the following Saturday 04.02.11 as instructed. Saturday rolled around and we showed up at the doctor crossing our fingers everything looked good but when the doctor looked she said they didn't look any better and she was putting him on another (#3) antibiotic. As a concerned mom I asked what happens from here, the response I got was come back in a week 04.09.11 and if he was not better then he would get another antibiotic and if that doesn't work then they would do a 3 series shots and if that doesn't work then they would send him to an ENT (ear nose and throat doctor). On Sunday we went to my dads and I was talking to my step mom about the whole situation and I came to the conclusion that Rhyder is 8 months old and has had an ear infection for 3 weeks now and that is WAY to FLIPPING long for a baby and TOO many ANTIBIOTICS!!! I've had it! He has an appointment to go see and ENT on 04.07.11 because I am not willing to let him go through pain ANY longer then he needs to! He pulls at his ears all day and night long, he has a rough time sleeping, you can tell my sweet little 8 month old is miserable and I want something done so he doesn't have hearing loss or anything else due to this long drawn out ear infection! With all that being said I'm sick of going to the doctors and pharmacy!!!!

Although Rhyder has been so sick he is still a happy active baby! He has been taking step more and more often. The most he has taken at one time is 6. He climbed up 11 stair! I'm thinking it is time to start teaching him how to go down! He is getting big so fast and will be running too soon!

Ben got a job guiding on hunts with Rowdy Birddog Outfitters. He is so excited and loves to HUNT! I am happy for him and that I am also able to help and get involved. They are a family oriented Company! I'm so happy for him! Looks like we will be "living" in the mountains this summer! Not that I mind at all!!

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Saturday 03.12.11

So... A couple weeks ago Ben told me that I needed to pack an over night bag for Saturday the 12th and that's all he would tell me (even though I of course asked questions) He went with his brother Josh and friend Joe to go shed hunting that morning and was going to come back around 5 so we could drop the baby off and go do what he had planned. So I went the my friend Monica's house for her son Micheal's birthday, Rhyder and I had hung out there for awhile and then went home so I could pack my overnight bag. We had a lot of fun! When we got home Ben's mom Janet watched the baby so I could get ready for my HOT date! When Ben picked us up we went and dropped the baby off and we were on our way! We went to Ruby River and had a nice dinner and then went to the ANNIVERSARY INN! It was so fun! We had a western theme room our bed was a wagon, the bath tub was huge, it had a big screen t.v. the shower head was a bucket with holes on the bottom. There was also a saddle. It was so nice to spend the night with just the 2 of us and relax! We were in bed sleeping by 9:30!! :D We had such a great weekend and enjoyed our time together!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Update...

Sorry it has been so long since the last blog! With a full time job, being a mom to a 7 month old and a wife things can get CRAZY!!! A lot has happened... Well Rhyder started crawling, it happened so fast it unbelievable! He stands up to everything he can! I think he will be walking shortly... I absolutely LOVE being a mom! It is the most amazing feeling and wonderful opportunity. For those of you who have kids you know it can be hard and exhausting... especially if your child does NOT sleep worth anything (like Rhyder)... Ben always says "Our next kid better have my sleeping habits" (which let me tell you is... he hits the bed and is out!! Not joking) Rhyder and I on the other hand sleep like pure POOP!!! Oh well he will someday hopefully sleep ha ha

Last weekend Rhyder and I went to St. George with my mom, Dave (step dad), Destinee (lil sister), and Dakoda (lil brother). We had a BLAST!!! Dest and I followed everyone else in my car down there. We sat by the pool for awhile, the hot tub was about bath tub water warm and was cool enough for Rhyder so we put him in with his little floating outfit and passed him around ha ha he loved it, he probably was in there for a good 2 hours! Sunday came so fast and it was time to come home! I was sad but happy at the same time... I loved being in the warm weather but miss my hubby! On the way home I got a text from Ben saying that we needed a baby sitter for the baby Sat night to Sun... I needed to pack an overnight bag and NOT to look at the bank account LoL I am so tempted but do not want to ruin the surprise...

That is all for now!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Walk around the neighborhood

We moved in last weekend and decided that sunday was such a beautiful day we would take the baby on a walk around the neighborhood! We had so much fun! Rhyder just sat and looked all over at all the people we saw, the houses, and just held on to his toys! We walked to the park and hung out there for a minute then went home!
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rHyDeR

OMG!!! He is getting so big! Time goes by to fast... i enjoy every minute of it though! We bought him this walker and he absolutely loves it, he goes running down the hallway and gets very excited.

He has been waving so much and when you wave bck he will sometimes laugh!

In our house we have a picture frame in the hall that if your in front of it he will just look it up and down haha i love him.

Kids do such funny things and grow up way to fast! You have to cherish everything and moment :D
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Monday, February 7, 2011

Fun Weekend!

This weekend was so much fun! '

Friday night I went to my cousin Haley's show in Ogden with my aunt Megan (her mom) cousin Ciarra, Brek and Jordan (Ciarra date)!! It was so much fun! I love watching Haley with all that energy and not being shy. After the show we went home, met up with Ben the baby and Jordan (another Jordan) and went bowling. When we left the bowling alley we went to Taco Bell and they boys would say the funniest stuff! :D

Saturday we woke up and got ready for the hunting expo... We went with Haley, Joe and Victoria and their daughter and of course Rhyder. We had so much fun there as well. When we got home we sat around for a bit and I made MAC & CHEESE!!! Good thing I was wanting it so bad and ruined it by putting ROTTEN milk in it!!! I was so mad. We left and went to Taco Bell then our really good friends Barry and Jennie and watched the fights!

Sunday I had a girls date while getting Ben valentines present which was fun, after that I went to the store and home when I got home I got stuff ready to take to our friends house for the SUPERBOWL!!! We went to our friends Joe and Carly's... there was so many people there and we had a lot of fun! Some of the girls including myself played poker while everyone watched the game! There was so much food and talking going on!

What a good weekend! It went by WAY to fast!

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

ThE dAy I mArRiEd mY bEsT fRiEnD...

Our Wedding!!
Let's see if I can remember Ha Ha... If you have ever been married you can testify the day is kind of a blurry :D I remember Ben went and stayed at his dads house out in tooele for the couple days before the wedding... The morning of Teegun (soon to be sister in law) came over and I did her hair for the wedding since she was a bridesmaid, we did her hair and got bored so we decided to go to target and buy me a wallet... I know your thinking TARGET the day of your wedding LoL I know but it happened! On the way to the Alpine Art Center where we got married it was pouring and I remember calling my mom in tears saying I don't want the ceremony inside but it is raining. She assured me it would be okay, I got there around 4:00 and the got my hair done while I did my make-up, I was so nervous and hungry.
My good friends Danielle and Miki went and got me chicken nuggets :D

When they came in and said it was time I got so many butterflies going through my stomach!
We were walking out the doors to go down the isle and in front of me I saw Hunter (our nephew) holding the pillow as my wedding ring fell off and into the grass Ha Ha all I could do was laugh. His dad grabbed the ring and put it back on and they continued walking.



Walking down the stairs and isle I talked to my dad to calm my nerves... I was SO Nervous!

When I got out and saw the groom and his groomsmen all in cowboy hats and all the bridesmaids in the cowboy boots I was speechless! Everyone looked amazing, it was sunny outside, the grass wasn't to wet... PERFECT!!!! The next thing I know we were exchanging XOXOXOXO and RINGS!!!

I was officially married, officially Mrs. Alysha Cameron!

After we got all the congrats from family and friends we took pictures and went inside and got more congrats and had all our dances!

First Dance

Groom and Mom
Bride and Dad

$$$ Money Dance $$$

Next thing you know it is time to leave as MR. & MRS. CAMERON :D

Thursday, January 27, 2011

*2011*


HOLY COW... It's almost February! I am looking forward to this year! We have so many fun things planned and are looking forward to doin!

1. Going to wendover on 1.29.11 (best friend Jennie turns 21)
2. Moving into our rental house in FEB
3.Going to St. George in March
4. Going to Vegas and Misquite in April
5. I turn 21 in Apirl!!!!!
6. 2 year anniversary in June!
7. Maybe going on vacation in June
8.Rhyder turns 1 in July!!!!!
9. Ben turns 24 in October!!!!!
10. Enjoying all the time we have together!

Rhyder: is going to be 6 months tomorrow 1.28.11 and I can't beleive it... He has gotten so big so fast! He will get in the crawling postions and just sit there. LoL he does it so cute though. He has a basket of toys that he will grab the toy he wants (or should I say closest for him to grab) and then will sit and play with it! We have his 6th month check up on 1.29.11 where he will get his shots :( He is such and happy baby and is almost always smiling! Ben and I are so glad he came into our lives and has brought us such joy and happiness! We are also so thankful that he is such a healthy baby!

Us: Ben is still working at Prime Diesel and is (thankfully) still working days! He likes it so far and it hopefully turn into a long lasting job! He is a great dad and husband! We are bowling on a league every Thursday night with My Mom and Aunt Megan... As for us moving well... We were living with my moms friend Sara who is going through a divorce and has now ended up movin, the rental house we are moving into is not done so we will be living with my mom, sister and brother... We are both so excited to get this house! We cant wait to decorate, have Rhyder first birthday there, easter, christmas, and all the fun BBQ we will have this summer!